Monthly Archives: April 2013

Winter – Not always in Alaska

Yes, I enjoy winter.  But I really only like it for a month or two.  This is a new revelation for me, since winter has always meant cold weather and snow as if I didn’t know any better.  I have plenty of warm clothes and have survived just fine in temperatures colder than minus 60 degrees.  When I was younger I did a lot of cross-country skiing (even carrying my little daughter on my back on the way to work!)  I loved snow shoeing and did some ice fishing.  It is only in recent years that I began to be bothered by all the darkness, from early afternoon to late morning, and started staying indoors looking out at the icy snow for months at a time.  Good thing I have lots of projects and always keep busy.  But I got tired of fighting to keep vehicles running, shoveling snow off the decks, being afraid of falling down, and finally started thinking that there could be a better way to live out the rest of my life.

Summers in Alaska are nice, with lots of daylight, temperatures up to 70 degrees, and things to do like kayaking and camping.  But in recent years I stay home during the commercial fishing season when Peter comes to Alaska from his home in Germany, and for a couple of summers I was babysitting his young children, as I will do again this year.  That means no kayak or camping trips and very little freedom.

Since I turned 66 last fall, I am feeling the creep of time running out at the same time I feel my joints ache and my energy slowly ebbing.  For twenty years, since my kids grew up and left home, I’ve been wanting to sell the house that I designed and built thirty years ago so I could “raise them in style”, proving to myself and the world that I could do it.  The older kids rarely visit, and I wonder why I should keep such a high-maintenance, too-big, too many stairs, and way too much winter house so we can believe it is our Family Home.  Somehow I have felt tied to it, to the homestead dreams of my father, to the effort of being the best single mother I could manage, and to the young woman I used to be.  Now I realize that it doesn’t really matter what I do or where I am.  I was only 36 years old when I built that house and my kids are now all well into their 40s, so it’s their time now.  They can all take care of themselves and their families, wherever they choose to live.  I also have choices to make.

So I have decided to go and try the RV traveling life, starting right now.  I know I will meet new people and see new places, learn by experience how to manage a motor home and all it’s associated responsibilities.  My favorite quote about life in an RV is this one: “Anyone thinking of full-timing is thinking of buying a small town. Sewage treatment, water treatment, electric, gas, cable and internet utilities, along with a house and a car, you buy it all, and unless you’re wealthy, you maintain it all.”  I’m not wealthy, but I can find help when I need it, and I don’t need to answer to anybody.

This is the story of my first trip.

I flew to Las Vegas with my dog Cheyenne, where my son Grey picked us up and we went to Indian Springs, where he had stored my motor home by his house.  He had hooked up the towing brackets that Roadmaster had fabricated for me, and the adapter they sent to fit the Demco tow bars that came with my motor home. He said that it took hours to clean the rust and crap from under my beat-up Acura before he could even put in the bolts!  Thanks, Grey!  I really appreciated it.

But of course I was scared about hooking up the car, and terrified that it would immediately be destroyed as some had warned me.  There is still a lot of debate about whether an automatic Acura Legend can be towed, but my success is probably proof that the transmission is most likely a typical Honda product.  It was well below freezing every night I was there, and the water hose he connected to my motor home was frozen solid every morning.  Fortunately I had sent ahead a down sleeping bag, so it was quite comfy in my new bed.  I practiced driving around his little town for a couple of days, and hooked up the tow bar several times before I took off down the highway.

P1160824 leaving Indian Springs NevadaP1160844 Cheyenne onboard

Flash to the Past –

I had many previous road trips, mostly to and from Alaska.  Here is the first one, in 1952 on our initial trip to Alaska (that’s me on the right, at five years of age), and another trip in 1977 when I crossed the same Alaska border with my own children.

Driving to Alaska 1952 1977sm

Today's version of the Alaska border sign to Skagway, much more fancy!

Today’s version of the Alaska border sign to Skagway, much more fancy!

This was a typical 1950s camping trip.  My job was always to gather firewood for the campfire.  I loved camping more than anything, and  I still love fires and camping!  I’m  the enthusiastic marshmallow roaster on the right.

Camping 50s Style

Son Grey in the Mojave Desert

On the way back north to the border, I was in no hurry to leave Mexico.  We stopped at the beach in Tijuana for lunch, which was lovely.  After dropping off Gloria in San Diego, it was already 5 p.m. but I decided to keep driving toward Las Vegas, and stop when I got too tired to continue.  As it turned out I just kept going and arrived at Grey’s house about midnight.  We had a very nice visit for almost two weeks, then I went to the condo in Las Vegas for my last week before returning home to spend the holidays alone.

Grey always loved Halloween, so it was fun to see him decorate the house and enjoy himself so much!

P1160176 Greys Halloween (Large)

Grey and Lorin seem to have a good life together, and they both love Indian Springs.  It is a quiet little town near Grey’s job, where everybody knows each other and friends always can lend a helping hand.  Of course, Grey fixes cars for other folks almost every day.  Since everyone owes him a favor, he can also get assistance when he needs it.  He has lots of friends, and seems pretty content.  Of course as a Mom I wish he’d quit smoking and drinking so much beer, but mostly I’m glad he’s happy.

P1160192 Dad-daughter dancing (Large)P1160211 halloween (Large)P1160337 crossed axes (Large)P1160298 man and dog (Large)P1160387 gameP1160368 tank 3 (Large)

P1160372 dad and daughter (Large)P1160532 treecutP1160573 Grey and Raoul

P1160577 Grey and me

With Grey’s encouragement I spent my last week in Las Vegas looking for a motor home.  I had decided to buy a Lazy Daze, the best built Class C, small enough for me to handle as a solo woman traveler.  Of course even after I found one in Claremont, California, buying it was complicated and several times I was ready to give up.  But finally I bought it, a 1997 26.5 foot Mid-bath with only 33,000 miles on the engine and 34 hours on the generator.  It came with new batteries, hydraulic levelers, and was in very good condition.  But the seller delivered it at the same time my plane was leaving for Alaska, so Grey drove it back to his house for storage but I never even got to drive it!  Two months later I flew down with my dog Cheyenne to begin our big new adventure, and that will be the next story…
 

Flash to the Past –

Mom Kristin with the three kids in Hawaii 1984 - Peter (12), Dara (14), Kristin( 37), and Grey (16) Besides driving and camping trips, this was our first real vacation ever, and it took me two years to pay for it!

Mom Kristin with the three kids in Hawaii 1984 – Peter (12), Dara (14), Kristin( 37), and Grey (16)
Besides driving and camping trips, this was our first real vacation ever, and it took me two years to pay for it!

In spring 1975, Grey was seven years old and Mom was separated at last, escaped and soon to be divorced!

Grey 1975